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"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

Understanding BPD - The Lost Self and The Rock and a Hard Place - Impact of Core Wound Abandonment

Understanding BPD - The Lost Self  and The Rock and a Hard Place - Impact  of Core Wound Abandonment

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Understanding BPD - The Lost Self and Understanding BPD - The Rock and Hard Place in BPD are the first 2 ebooks of Mahari's follow up series of 3 ebooks to her Core Wound of Abandonment Series (see Core Wound of Abandonment Series Ebooks in the Ebook Bundles Category) - This series focuses on the lasting Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment and is a follow up series to the first series of 3 ebooks that explained, explored, and examined what Mahari has termed as "The Core Wound of Abanonment" is and involves in Borderline Personality Disorder.

Lost Self Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder The Lost Self Ebook
This ebook includes 141 pages that provide a deeper understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder. Included in this examination of the lost self in BPD is a look at what it means to have a lost self, the borderline quandry of the search for who one is, who is the borderline if he or she doesn't know who he or she really is? Mahari also explores the terror of need in BPD, the trappings of BPD, the lost self and self hate, the life not lived in and with the absence of the lost self and the borderline need to search for and find the lost self.



The Rock and a Hard Place in and Of Borderline Personality Disorder Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Rock and a Hard Place Ebook
ebook includes 133 pages examining and exploring 35 main aspects of issues found in those with BPD that constitute a rock and a hard place borderline reality that perpetuates the impact of the core wound of abandonment in ways that keep many stuck in the active throes of BPD and its pain and suffering.

In this ebook Mahari explores the answer to the question as to what is normal versus abnormal and what that looks for those with BPD and the reality that there is normal in what is the otherwise abnormal of BPD. Also examined is Borderline Ambivalence, Fear, Defensiveness, Emotional Dysregulation, Borderline Projection, The Masks of BPD, Grandiosity and Narcissism in BPD, the impact of Negative Psychological Associations and BPD, BPD and Devaluation, Self-Harm and Borderline Skewed Reality.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"