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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

Abandonment Resolution Coaching

Abandonment Resolution Coaching

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute coaching session with A.J. Mahari to discearn the ways that unresolved abandonment is keeping you stuck and is a major obstacle to growth and change and you achieving your goals in your relationships, career, and life generally.

Many people who feel blocked, stuck, and unable to identify and/or achieve their goals and dreams in life have unresolved abandonment issues that profoundly impact their emotional experience in life and that intensify difficulty with loss and/or change.

Do you have difficulty with change? Do you have difficulty moving on after a relationship ends, a friendship changes or ends? Do you continue to think about a job that you used to have and feel stuck there emotionally? Are you experiencing a high-conflict or toxic relationship with a parent (or parents) and find that despite what you need you continue to put aside your own well-being to try to please or meet the demands of your parents? Do you find yourself trying to meet the needs or demands of others just because you "hate" loss and don't want to have to deal with it?

Underlying a lot of emotional blocks in life is unresolved abandonment. A.J. Mahari can help you to understand more about what this means for you in your life and explore with you what you will benefit from learning about yourself and how you can learn to let go, to grieve, and to move forward to identify, embrace, and achieve your goals and dreams in your life.

A.J. will help you learn to identify:

  • What is blocking you
  • What you are focusing on that isn`t helping you move forward
  • The lessons that loss and grief have to teach you
  • Effective ways of coping with your emotions
  • How to nurture and take care of yourself
  • Identify and achieve your goals and dreams
  • Help you to recognize how your here-and-now might be being shaped by your past and how you can change that

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"