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"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session - Codependence

1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session - Codependence

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute Phone Life Coaching Session with A.J. Mahari to explore the options that you have in dealing with issues or concerns you have about either your own codependency or the codependence of someone close to you in your life. Codependence is often at the heart of many dysfunctional and painful relationships and ways of relating.

Are you at a cross-roads? Do you know that something in your life isn't working the way you need it to or had hoped it would and you know you need to examine this? Do you have relational difficulties? Do you feel overwhelmed? Do you feel lost? Do you need someone to talk to who will really listen to and focus on you?

Dysfunctional relationships, whether unfulfilling, or outrightly toxic, have at their center codependence, enmeshment, poor boundaries or  a lack of boundaries, healthy or otherwise that intensify and de-stablize relationships. Codepenent ways of relating demand too much. They are too intense. They are obstacles to healthy ways of relating. It is not healthy to try to meet all of your needs through or for someone else or to try to meet someone else's needs for them. There is such a thing as "caring too much". A type of "caring" that is really more about control. Control often for the sake of avoiding one's own pain and issues. Pain and issues that when addressed can set you free from painful codependent ways of relating.

A.J. Mahari is a very effective and compassionate life coach and strategist who can help you explore the process of any personal growth and change that you may well be seeking and want in your relationships and in your life.

Working with a A.J. in her role as a life coach can help you to identify ways of creating change in your life and/or ways to cope more effectively in the process of the many "endings" that are the new beginnings in your life. New beginnings that are seeking to increase your conscious awareness to the ever-unfolding process of further awakening to your own personal insight and personal enlightenment - one step at a time.

Please Note: Any purchased life coaching session(s) is (are) non-refundable.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

"There are 10 Key Facts at the heart of Borderline Personality Disorder that every non borderline needs to understand. To begin facing the facts of BPD and what it means to the non borderline, you have to first know what the facts really are. Not just the traits that define BPD but the facts of what the experience is and why it is so painful for family members, loved ones, and relationship partners."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Facing 10 Key Facts About BPD - For Non Borderlines"