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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

BPD Recovery and Stigma Video Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Video Lecture

86 minutes In this video lecture given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari talks about how she was diagnosed and the way that she encountered stigma and her thoughts and feelings about ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

Are you someone with a loved one, family member, ex or relationship partner with Borderline Personality Disorder? Are you in pain? Do you feel like you are losing yourself or that you have lost yourself? Are you experiencing an ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

Loved Ones of BPD - Nons Unhooking - Part 2 - Healing and Recovery Loved ones of those with BPD - Non borderlines need to understand what love is and what love isn't and learn to find out why they have chosen to engage an unhealthy ...

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Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

A.J. Mahari on Video about Tough Love and BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about tough love. Mahari widens the perspective on what tough ...

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Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD - Loved ones of BPD Part 2 of 2 In part two of her Video Lecture on Tough Love for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, A.J. Mahari talksa about how and when tough love can be applied in coping with someone with BPD in your life. ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihilating suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Abandoned Pain of BPD"