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"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

How and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising ...

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Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners

In this audio program, Borderline Personality Disorder For Beginners, A.J. Mahari, a woman who has recovered from BPD and who is a life coach, talks to those who are newly diagnosed and searching for more understanding about what Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) really is ...

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BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

In this audio, Author, BPD and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari gives the listener an in depth understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder and the emotional triggers that are so central to having Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari shares some her experience in how understanding ...

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BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

BPD Recovery and Stigma Audio Lecture

86 minutes A.J. Mahari's video lecture can be purchased as an audio only dowload as well. This lecture was given to a group of people with Borderline Personality Disorder (also attended by some of their loved ones) A.J. Mahari ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline

Increase your understanding of emotional dysegulation in those with BPD whether you have BPD or are a Non Borderline A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications Emotion regulation is central to recovery from Borderline Personality ...

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Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Finding Hope From The Polarized Reality Of BPD

Borderlines can and need to work toward welcoming in hope one step at a time through mindfulness and radical acceptance. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In this program A.J. Mahari talks about how those with Borderline Personality ...

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From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

From False Self To Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Disorder Getting In Touch With The Inner

An examination of the reality of the false self in BPD and the reality that is healing through connection to one's inner child. By: A.J. Mahari © 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "From False Self To Authentic Self - Getting In ...

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Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

Lost Self In BPD - Need and Search For Identity

People diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) do not know who they are. They do not have a stable sense of any known self or a stable sense of known identity. There is a profound need to search for the lost authentic Self and for identity. At the center of BPD is ...

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Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Preparing For Recovery From BPD Part 1 and Part 2

Recovery from BPD takes preparation along with committment and taking personal responsibility. Preparing to recover is a process one has to choose. By: A.J. Mahari © January 2008 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications In the audio program, "Preparing ...

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Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder

Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder examines the reality that rage often becomes an addiction for those with BPD. In the audio program, "RAGE ADDICTION IN BPD" A.J. Mahari outlines and explains the formidable reality that the rage addiction ...

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Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Sources of abandonment and how they produce shame are examined along with the impact of shame on relationships. By: A.J. Mahari © June 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "The Shame of Abandonment in BPD" Mahari ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"